Our celebrationary plans include Sharon getting home after 7pm from work, to find me in pain from the migraine, and the kids giving us both grief about going to bed. Then we'll probably both have a totally unerotic early night.
Our actual gift to ourselves is copies of Thor, Captain America and Iron Man 2. Sharon hadn't seen them, we didn't own them, and so we figured it was as good a gift as any for ourselves. Now we just need time to watch the run of Marvel movies in order.
Thanks for a great 14 years sweetie. We've had our ups and downs, but I can truthfully say I love you even more now than when we were married, and I was no slouch in the smitten department then :)