|Falling in love again...
||[Oct. 13th, 2007|12:19 am]
You know how I've mentioned I fall in love easily? Well meet my most recent, Ronni Ancona.
YouTube link to her appearance on Q.I.
With this one piece in Q.I. I was besotted. And she only drew me in further through the rest of the episode.
Give me a woman with a beautiful, interesting, creative, and above all funny mind, and it goes straight to my heart and occasionally, loins... *happy sigh*
*happy sigh*s with you. Such a pity we haven't seen her back on QI regularly.
Well, on the bright side, I believe she's got her own show.
2007-10-12 10:48 pm (UTC)
Do you really fall in love or is it just falling in lust?
Usually it's love first by a long chalk, and lust follows on, but not always. But after that first appearance, I just wanted to pick Ronni up in my arms and hold her for hours while we talked, no real lust there.
And I recognise the flavour of the feeling, as in this is someone I've fallen for. Very rare for that to happen with someone I've not met in the flesh. And once I fall for someone, I don't stop loving them.
Interestingly, I appear to be developing a crush on a fairly recent friend, one who is 'unattainable' for various reasons, and the way I picked it up was the way the lust started has started to creep in. The desire to increase the physicality has come from the deepening of my feelings, though it's not like she wasn't attractive before. However if you engage my brain in the right ways or for long enough, then I will desire a more physical relationship. Just the way I'm wired. If you have an appealing mind, I want to breed with you.
But I'm not in love with her - again the feeling is different - and I may never be or one day I'll wake up and *boom*
Meanwhile the woman that I would most expect to have fallen in love with, and one that I would quite like to be in love with because she rocks, still not. I love her deeply and dearly as a friend, and am growing to fancy her something rotten (she has a very sexy mind), but while my feelings are deep, they haven't made that subtle switch-over.
A long answer, and still not spot on, but there you have it.
Sigh, if only the general population selected breeding partners for intelligence and humour, rather than their ability to get pissed and grope in the back of a Falcon.
I've never been one to get pissed, or to find those that do attractive. As to the groping in the back of a Falcon, can't judge that as I've not done it :P
Whether someone is in my ideal physical range or well outside it, what will make the difference as to whether I'm attracted to them on most levels is brains and personality. *sigh*
I know it's not a bad thing at all, but you know, I'd like the luxury of getting to shag people based purely on the fact I find them hot.
Anyone wishing to teach me how to be more shallow can contact me via the usual methods *grin*
I believe you can hire professionals to assist with that particular problem.
Hey, I've seen her on a skit show on Australian TV. Can't remember the name though.
Okay, dude, you're messing with my feelings here
Just noticed the /tease tag. It didn't show up except in e-mail
I know :(
Sorry about that, no idea why. Naughty LJ fairies.